Change

Lots of people actually question if it is possible for a person to change. Not just their every day life style, but the way they think, feel and live their lives.

For instance, a man or a woman can change in a relationship if they do something wrong like cheating. There are, however, some people out there who actually don’t believe this. Some people believe that it takes therapy and work to get the trust back in a relationship. Some believe it could never be the same no matter what you do.

There are people out there who believe that people who get sentenced to prison can go through therapy and change. Some actually do change and others just say they do to get out. There are also people who commit smaller crimes that get lighter punishments. They believe that they can change.

Change can be good if the person who needs to change wants to change. But, that isn’t always the case. We as individual people are charged with attempting to decide when these people do the things they do and commit the crimes they do if they have the ability to make the necessary changes. This is the most difficult thing in this country to do.

Single Mother.....Doing Things Alone.

They run screaming like sirens through the small house. She pleads at
them. “Please Stop!” They get louder, pretending she’s not even there.
Her pounding head falls into her trembling hands. The tears begin to
pour out.

They hit and push, pinch and bite. She uses all her energy to break
them up. They just fight right through her. She can’t control them.
Why does she have to do this alone?

They pick up their toys and make their beds. Deep down she knows
they sometimes listen. They play quietly, sharing their cars and trains.
She can see they love each other. Is it possible that she can do it alone?

They hug and kiss her goodnight. She tucks them in bed and she smiles.
They say, “Love you mommy.” She backs out of the room, her head in
her hands. The tears begin to pour out.

Parents vs. Children

Parents are special people; especially to their children. They play a vital role in the lives of their children.
Children have always thought that once they reach the age of 18 they are finally on their own and their parents will leave all the decision making to them. This is not true.
Parents will try to continue making the decisions until the child puts their foot down. Sometimes even when the child attempts to put a stop to it their parents still don’t listen.
Children are left with how to deal with this situation without hurting their parents. Everyone knows that most of the time the parents are just worried and want what is best for their child no matter what their age is. However, this tends to put a damper on the child’s life.
This situation can cause different problems. It can cause problems in the child’s relationships or marriages. It can cause big issues between parent and child in regards to they way the child lives. These problems can develop into problems between the parent and child to where they stop speaking and they both miss out on things they shouldn’t be missing out on.
There is no easy way to deal with these issues. Families need to really think about what their views are compared to others. Not every one, including parents and children, are going to believe and think the same way.
Attempting to see things from the others point of view might help. Also, parents need to give their children the opportunities to make their own decisions even if they are the wrong ones. The best way a child can learn is from their own mistakes.